Saturday, August 22, 2009

The Duckpond

Last Sunday, after FourFest '09, we headed out to the Shelburne Museum to recharge our batteries (the adults that is...we bring the kids to drain their batteries a little bit!).

The heat wave was in full effect, and by 10:30 AM, it was already boiling outside. We managed to find the best spot in the state to chill out and relax...the Duckpond. We sat for a long time here, and it was so peaceful.

Watching the ducks...




While holding on to his birthday transformers for dear life!



Even the baby enjoyed the ducks.




They were pretty cute.

We also tried to grab a quick Christmas card photo, but...something tells me it's not going to work out!

Luxurious

What a feeling!

For the first time in more than a month, I am looking down the barrell of a weekend with nothing on my plate. No agenda, no parties, no travelling, no friends visiting. Just my family, and whatever appeals to us. It feels almost decadent to be so un-scheduled.

My son was so excited about it he woke up at 3:30 this morning and wouldn't go back to sleep. He likes his fun to begin early, that's for sure.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Griffin's Birthday Bash Part 1

Yes, I am blowing the dust off my blog again!

The month of August has been jam packed full of action (and it's only the 16th!). In an attempt to rescue some details from the blur of the month, let's start with...THE BIRTHDAY!

In the past, Griffin's birthday parties have been mostly low-key family affairs. For his first birthday, we invited 20 adults to come celebrate with us at our place. Who knew it would be the rainiest day of the year (literally!). The sight of my husband standing at the grill in the pouring rain, not to mention people crammed shoulder to shoulder in our little house, made us rethink the home parties for a couple of years. Birthdays 2 and 3 were celebrated closer to the relatives, at my aunt's house in NH.

But this year, my husband and I decided to be brave and attempt the Mount Everest of social situations, the kids birthday party. After some debating about the location, we decided to stick with what we know, and have everybody come to our little house in the woods for some old fashioned hooting and hollering!

The first hurdle: invitations. Who, and how many, do we invite? The conventional wisdom for kids' parties says the birthday kid's age plus one is the perfect equation for guests. For us, that meant 5 kids. Easy enough, right? Is anything ever that easy?

The politics of pre-school indicate that an invitation should be issued to all classmates. Our dilemma: Griffin recently "graduated" from middle pre-school to older pre-school, and has good friends in both groups. The solution: invitations to everyone! That's right, 36 invitations issued. We weren't too worried about the guest list, as our past experience told us that many of the parents and kids wouldn't attend. We estimated we'd end up with about 7 kids. Until the RSVPs started coming in fast and furious, giving us a count of 16 kids and 21 adults.

Next hurdle: activities. As the yes's started mounting, we started to worry about making sure that everybody had something to do. Keep 'em busy, keep 'em happy! Busy kids also mean that parents can relax and enjoy some grown up conversation. Thank God for Oriental Trading Company! We got 72 little foam planes for the kids to fly, supplies for a make-your-own-sock-puppet activity, face-painting, tattoos, pinwheels and kazoos. And of course, the millions of cars and trucks that Griffin already owns, from the giant dump truck to the little micro-racers, perfect for the kids to race over the backyard terrain.

Final hurdle: food. In reality, this was not much of a hurdle at all. With the anticipated number of guests, we decided that keeping it simple was the best thing to do. Lots of fruit and veggies with some dip, crackers and cheese, and yummy southwestern eggrolls (vegetarian and chicken). No problem!

Once we had a plan in place, we felt relatively confident. I mean really, what could go wrong?

Griffin's Birthday Bash Part 2

After a week's vacation in Minnesota (and it's hour time change), and a raging ear infection for Mommy, I was a little apprehensive about the party. After all, theory and practice an be two very different things, and I wasn't sure our plan would hold up.

We came back from our vacation on Sunday, the party was scheduled for the next Saturday. Every night that week, we ran around after the kids had gone to bed, gathering our supplies and prepping for the fun. On Friday night, we went to bed confident and happy that the morning would be a breeze. My parents were headed up to help, and the party wasn't until 1. All we needed to do was set things up in the yard, make the goodie bags, clean the bathrooms and inflate the helium balloons.

Fast forward to 12:10 PM on party day. I was unshowered, sweating in the 90 degree heat, and hacking up ribbon with a paring knife, as I'd misplaced the scissors in the confusion of the morning. Nothing to eat, nothing to drink, panic gnawing at my guts. No possible way we were going to be ready in time. I finally tore myself away from the last of the projects, trying to imagine what the other parents would think when they arrived. Nothing says "welcome to the party" like a sweaty, maniacal lunatic with a balloon.

And then, a miracle happened. The first car rolled into our driveway at 12:50, just as I was putting out the first of the snacks. After the panic of the morning (when you have to tell the birthday boy to "keep his hands off anything that looks like it's fun", nobody's having fun), it was time to relax.

After the first few minutes, as the kids trickled in, Griffin started to realize that the party we had been talking about for weeks was finally happening. The cool stuff we'd put out was thoroughly enjoyed: faces were painted, noisemakers were blown, and the little foam airplanes were worth their weight in gold. There were groups of kids inside playing with blocks and matchbox cars, groups of kids outside, in the tent, on the rocking horse, in the little carpeted area we'd set up for the babies in attendance. Parents were chatting and snacking, taking the "grand tour" of our little house.

The day was sunny and clear, and the 90 degree temperature kept the bugs away. The benefit of being in the woods is that there's always shade, always a cool place to sit, and it helped to keep the kiddos from getting overheated. The frosting on our homemade cupcakes did not appreciate the heat, so "sugar time" was a little bit messy. The birthday boy helped himself to 2 cupcakes, one chocolate, one vanilla. Hey, if you can't have 2 cupcakes on your birthday, when can you have them?

After we sang and served cupcakes, the kids started a big game of "chase". One of the boys gathered up all the "punching balloons" we had blown up, and strapped them to his arms with the handy elastic. The rest of the kids chased him in and out of the house, shrieking and laughing, making up their own fun. At one point all of them, including balloons, were squeezed into the downstairs bathroom. It was at this point that I actually remembered we had a camera somewhere, and got it out to take some pictures.

As the day wound down, and the kids packed up to go, we realized that despite all the craziness of set up (evidenced by the wild variation of balloon string lengths. Apparently, when you're hacking them off with a knife it's hard to be accurate) we had a terrific day, as did our guests. The birthday boy was tired but happy, as were the birthday parents. That was the point, right?